When I meet people I tend to not trust them until such time as they earn it. This doesn’t mean that I treat them poorly, I just don’t give them the key to my house until I understand their character.
Some observers may think this is a poor way to approach early relationships but I disagree. I find that if I trust a person before I know them, and they then betray that trust, then their is bad blood between us.
This notion that we should I all trust one another from the get go is to me a crock of rainbow and unicorn hugging nonsense which may work with some people but with others will leave a bitter and resentful end to a relationship which could have gradually blossomed.
So I say don’t trust people until you know them sufficiently.
@divegeestersaid When I meet people I tend to not trust them until such time as they earn it. This doesn’t mean that I treat them poorly, I just don’t give them the key to my house until I understand their character.
Some observers may think this is a poor way to approach early relationships but I disagree. I find that if I trust a person before I know them, and they then betray that ...[text shortened]... ually blossomed.
So I say don’t trust people until you know them sufficiently.
I presume from your “aren’t you supposed to be a Christian” barb, that you must think that you already know what the bible says, so why don’t you post it so we can discuss it?
@divegeestersaid I presume from your “aren’t you supposed to be a Christian” barb, that you must think that you already know what the bible says, so why don’t you post it so we can discuss it?