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@philokalia saidThank you, though your condemnation should be directed at Sonship, not Sonhouse.
AND, BECAUSE OF THAT, GHOST OF A DUKE:
Yes, I condemn Sonhouse for saying those things to you and I am sorry that I did not notice this to begin with.
That's why I tried to frame it in this wise man sort of way, implying that you shouldn't pile onto someone who is in a very unpopular position and add insults to the fray, etc.
BEcause, fran ...[text shortened]... e non-Christains to band together and set a higher standard.[/i]
And I believe you can do better.
@sonship saidNo one is putting any words in your mouth. You're making it up. This is your verbatim quote.
@Proper-Knob
I am not going to defend words that someone unfairly attempted to put into my mouth.
It is a divine remedy for the misfortune of someone BEING raped.
@sonship saidYou will need to clarify that.'It is a divine remedy for the misfortune of someone being raped.'
Okay, I read back through and found this comment.
"A remedy" is not meant to mean THE remedy.
I do not mean that there was a remedy which made everything already when a woman was raped.
Reparation of sorts is what I probably should have said.
I think my point was th ...[text shortened]... ery good at doing.) [/quote]
[Paul Copan, Is God a Moral Monster?, Baker Books, pg. 140. ]
@ghost-of-a-duke saidThis is a misunderstanding of the text that involves forcing them to marry.
You will need to clarify that.
Having a rape victim marry her rapist is 'a' divine remedy, not 'the' remedy? Is that your position? That an all knowing and all powerful deity was only able to provide such an inadequate 'remedy' that would undoubtedly cause further distress to the victim? Your God wasn't able to provide 'the' remedy to prevent such distress? Is that ...[text shortened]... olation done to her and that this somehow illuminates God's laws in the Old Testament. It doesn't!!!
@philokalia saidIs this somehow connected to law as given by the Abrahamic skygod.
This is a misunderstanding of the text that involves forcing them to marry.
Men in these days could have multiple wives, but more than anything, there was a duty of a husband to provide for his wife, right...
The father could basically keep his daughter at his home, but have this other husband elsewhere (the former rapist) be forced to support her legally as well as ...[text shortened]... she would theoretically conceive with other men. Her sons would also be entitled to his inheritance.
If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives.
This a provision ... SHOULD ... something happen.
This is a proscription for what to do ... PER CHANCE ... something should occur.
It is not a divine command to go RAPE.
It is a divine remedy for the misfortune of someone BEING raped. This is not "GO AND RAPE." Neither is it "Thus says the Lord, I CONDONE rape."
Similarly, are God's instructions IF ... divorce should occur is not God's instruction to "GO AND DIVORCE" (which is something He says He hates (Malachi 2:16) ).
Forcing a young girl to marry her rapist is a 'remedy'? For whom? It's certainly not a remedy for the victim.
1. If the father and daughter agree to it, the seducer must marry the woman and provide for her all her life, without the possibility of divorce. The father (in conjunction with the daughter) has the final say-so in the arrangement. The girl isn't required to marry the seducer.
2. The girl's father (the legal point person) has the right to refuse any such permanent arrangement as well as the right to demand the payment that would be given for a bride, even though the seducer doesn't marry his daughter (since she has been sexually compromised, marriage to another man would be difficult if not impossible). The girl has to agree with this arrangement, and she isn't required to marry the seducer. In this arrangement, she is still treated as a virgin.
Again, we don't see a lack of concern for the woman. Her well-being is actually the underlying theme of this legislation.
So if Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi paid 'financial compensation' to Kayla Mueller's father and pledged never to divorce her, then everything should be fine, right?
Kayla Mueller could settle down into her role as a mother of future recruits for ISIS.
"A remedy" I wrote, was instituted here.
Is Deut. 22:28-29 not A remedy for the crime of rape?
I didn't and don't mean "the PERFECT solution" but some reparation for the crime.
And I saw a great white throne and Him who sat upon it, from whose face earth and heaven fled away, and no place was found for them.
And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing before the throne, and scrolls were opened; and another scroll was opened, which is the book of life. And the dead were judged by the things which were written in the scrolls, according to their works.
And the sea gave up the dead which were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead which were in them; and they were judged, each of them. according to their works.
And death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. And if anyone was not found written in the book of life, he was cast into the lake of fire." (Rev. 20: 12-25)
Sonship shows his abysmal ignorance of history.
"Common sense should also inform us that the father of a loved daughter would
consider her feelings in the matter."
--Sonship
Murder of Amnon
Leaf from the Morgan Picture Bible, Scenes from the Life of Absalom, c. 1250
Absalom's sister, who was also called Tamar, was raped by Amnon, who was their half-brother. Amnon was also David's eldest son. After the rape, Absalom waited two years, and then avenged Tamar by sending his servants to murder a drunken Amnon at a feast, to which Absalom had invited all the king's sons (2 Samuel 13).