@dj2becker said
You seem a little bamboozled to me.
Non-chess player: What value does being a chess player add to your life?
Chess player: Intellectual stimulation, the opportunity for competition, there's community by way of my chess club, means of engagement with strangers etc. etc. You should try it.
Non-chess player: Thanks, but I am not interested in chess.
Chess player: I encourage people to play.
Non-chess player: Well, I am not a chess player.
Chess player: What value does NOT being a chess player add to your life?
Non-chess player: What a dumb question.
Chess player: Is it?
Non-chess player: Yes. Do you play Wei chi?
Chess player: No.
Non-chess player: What value does NOT being a Wei chi player add to your life?
Chess player: What a dumb question. Oh, wait...
Non-chess player: See what I mean?