26 Jun '21 10:58>
If you desire something enough, and keep thinking about it, that is when you are most likely to tread the path to doing something about it to get it.
Put it out of your mind (sometimes easier said than done) you have less chance of acting on those thought.
Philokalia's example about somebody with a rape of pedophile fantasy uncovers another channel. I love the friends that I have and would never consider doing them any harm or act of treachery against them. Somebody dwelling on this kind of thing seems to me like an accident waiting to happen.
Put it out of your mind (sometimes easier said than done) you have less chance of acting on those thought.
Philokalia's example about somebody with a rape of pedophile fantasy uncovers another channel. I love the friends that I have and would never consider doing them any harm or act of treachery against them. Somebody dwelling on this kind of thing seems to me like an accident waiting to happen.