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@very-rusty said
See if you can find something about being a lady you don't seem to have the answers! 🙂 😛

-VR

I could change your mind, and it wouldn't even take me five minutes, little man.

@suzianne said
I could change your mind, and it wouldn't even take me five minutes, little man.

Only in your mind little girl only in your mind! 😉 😛

If it is going to take you 5 minutes it is already over with my child.

-VR

@suzianne said
Great selection, I love this song, it's a classic.

The kind of lady I wanted to be but I didn't quite make it. 🙂

@torunn said
The kind of lady I wanted to be but I didn't quite make it. 🙂

Never put yourself down....Everyone has their good and bad points. I think you have more good points then most on this site of both sexes! Not even looking for brownie points! 😉

-VR

@very-rusty said
Never put yourself down....Everyone has their good and bad points. I think you have more good points then most on this site of both sexes! Not even looking for brownie points! 😉

-VR

Thank you. Suzie has the courage, I didn't.

@torunn said
The kind of lady I wanted to be but I didn't quite make it. 🙂

She still might be in there, perhaps with a little enticement she could be tempted. It's never too late, you know...

@torunn said
Thank you. Suzie has the courage, I didn't.

Suzie Q has the courage for what? Perhaps it would help if I knew what you were talking about.

-VR

@suzianne said
She still might be in there, perhaps with a little enticement she could be tempted. It's never too late, you know...

Thanks for your nice words, Suzie, but most things are too late for me. It's not that I have given up, it's just that I can't change much now for many reasons.

@very-rusty said
Suzie Q has the courage for what? Perhaps it would help if I knew what you were talking about.

-VR

Suzie has a better self-esteem than I have ever had. And she knows who she is. I have come to terms with myself later in life and by then many choices were already made.

@very-rusty said
Suzie Q has the courage for what? Perhaps it would help if I knew what you were talking about.

-VR

Torunn not answering the question doesn't make it go away, just makes more questions.

-VR

@torunn said
Suzie has a better self-esteem than I have ever had. And she knows who she is. I have come to terms with myself later in life and by then many choices were already made.

Suzie Q, insults people nothing to do with self-esteem that I can see. I think you're more of a lady and don't mind saying so in the Public forum.

-VR

@very-rusty said
Torunn not answering the question doesn't make it go away, just makes more questions.

-VR

To speak up for herself, be true to herself.

@torunn said
To speak up for herself, be true to herself.

I think she goes a bit further than speaking up for herself.

Some would call her rude, I say she is just being herself probably the same way out in the real world too, or could be completely different timid and afraid.

-VR

@torunn said
Thank you. Suzie has the courage, I didn't.

More than courage, it was a way out of my PTSD for me. I was tired, so tired, of being afraid. Confidence, more than sheer courage. I finally decided, what could be worse than what had been done to me already? Fear had become a habit. I failed a lot at first, but that only renewed my determination. Build on the smallest successes at first, and always, make sure that your reach exceeds your grasp, so that you're always improving. Failure comes, but it yields to determination. That's one of the biggest lessons I ever learned.

@suzianne said
More than courage, it was a way out of my PTSD for me. I was tired, so tired, of being afraid. Confidence, more than sheer courage. I finally decided, what could be worse than what had been done to me already? Fear had become a habit. I failed a lot at first, but that only renewed my determination. Build on the smallest successes at first, and always, make sure that yo ...[text shortened]... . Failure comes, but it yields to determination. That's one of the biggest lessons I ever learned.

Well that certainly does explain alot about you. Perhaps I should take it easy on you in the future!

-VR