Originally posted by robbie carrobie
Love is the identifying mark of a truly spiritual person, not what you eat or what you drink or what you wear!
And amen.
And I might add ...and also not what forms of belief or non-belief you may ascribe to. Jesus made clear this was primary in his understanding, both in his words and practice.
Those who do not know how to show compassion for others, including those whom they disagree with conceptually are a long way still from true spirituality.
To base spirituality on a set of relative moral rules is a materialistic form of spirituality
A loving, kind and compassionate immoral person is far closer to the "Kingdom of Heaven" than any self-righteous rule maker- usually for others. The primary spiritual "rules" they are oblivious of, that they are breaking, seem never to be made, or at least made primary, or shown in maintained attempts at practice.
As Tathagata made clear, the truest insight wisdom brings about compassion and without compassion our in-sight is poor.
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There are variants in all paths including Buddhism. Buddhism tends to be able to adapt to the social mores of different societies. There variants of both Hindus and Buddhists that are not vegetarian, but neither would accept cruelty to animals.
A lot of these "rules" as in Christianity, are accretions of later others not the original teacher.
There are Buddhist and Hindu societies that accept honest and caring extra-marital sex. Western heterosexual monogamy is not the only relational model in other religious societies.
As to drinking, drugs and gambling it is common wisdom that excess in any of these areas (as with sex) is deleterious, unhelpful and with risks that can lead away from deeper spiritual understanding or effective practice. Some plant form "drugs" have been used in mild form in spiritual exploration in numerous paths.