Sarvam dukham, life is suffering

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
Its not about me, its not about you, heck its not even about FMF, its about anger, resentment, forgiveness, letting go, covering over a transgression, not you, not FMF and not me. I hope you understand, its nothing personal.

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
so far you have attempted to make the thread about you because you think someone cares, FMF because you love him and me because you don't. Please shud-up-a-yo-face.

Originally posted by rookie54
holding a grudge against someone with whom you are angry,
is like holding a burning coal, expecting him to burn...

Originally posted by Captain Strange
You sound angry robbie

Originally posted by divegeester
Startreader believes, and rightly so, that it is best to "forgive and forget", so I was asking her about the depth of her belief in that ideology when you jumped in and made it about you...

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
Yes that's why you mentioned both you and FMF. Please shad-up-a-yo-face.

Originally posted by divegeester
What's the matter with you.

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
See the thread title and the opening post, who knows you may be actually able to address it😵

Originally posted by Captain Strange
The Jw's don't want to have to make you suffer Robbie.
Play along.
They know you will be full of torment if they cast you out into darkness.

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
talk is cheap eh Captain.

Originally posted by robbie carrobie
Oh dear a blatant loaded question, not very subtle and not very clever. Here is the thing i am trying to help you to address the thread topic. Do you think its possible?

I am never what one might describe as angry when I post on these forums ~ aside from one incident maybe five years ago. I find it it quite thought provoking and calming ~ and often amusing ~ to participate here.

This lack of anger on my part is what underpins my unflappable, heart-of-the-matter, and mostly not-taking-the-abuse-bait style, I would say. Not being angry is what enables me to be clear and to get to the heart of the matter.

As Landisqueen170 - a vocal critic of mine, and whose criticism I welcome and always meet head on - said recently: "[FMF is] an intelligent, articulate poster who often gives much food for thought". This is made possible by me simply not being angry when I engage people. 😉

Originally posted by Startreader
True. Anger is a fruitless indulgence.

Like hanging on to grivances. Forgive, forget and move on. Much the best for all concerned.

“...I'd been raised by my parents to believe barfing your feelings on other people was the height of impoliteness...”
―Stephen King, Joyland

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
“...I'd been raised by my parents to believe barfing your feelings on other people was the height of impoliteness...”
―Stephen King, Joyland