25 Jul '12 14:36>
[To the honoring and memory of all victims of violence, and for the mind-healing and enlightenment of their murderers:]
"To act with deeds of loving kindness towards others is to adopt a certain kind of attitude, even one may say a certain kind of emotional stance. The characteristic emotional attitude is of course that of love (in the sense of a deep friendliness and empathetic attitude).
The Buddhist term here is ‘mettā ’, which has a meaning much broader and deeper than that conveyed by the modern understanding of the
word ‘love’. Such a love in its perfected form is characterized by being inclusive of all living beings, but it has as its basis the love that we feel for ourselves and those closest to us.
The basic emotional attitude of mettā can be elaborated further as the Four Brahma-vihāras or Sublime abodes.
Mettā is the first of the Brahma-vihāras and the basis of the other three abodes,
karuṇā or compassion,
muditā or sympathetic joy and
upekkhā or equanimity.
Thus when faced by the suffering of others ‘mettā ’ is expressed as karu.nā or compassion.
When faced with the happiness of living beings ‘mettā ’ is expressed as muditā or sympathetic joy.
Finally, when faced by the suffering and happiness of others in the light of the conditions that caused that suffering or happiness, mettā is expressed as upekkhā or equanimity or tranquillity.
By tranquillity is meant not a cold indifference, but a tranquillity that arises from the insight that any state of existence is impermanent and can therefore change into something better and higher."
Source: http://www.westernbuddhistreview.com/vol4/Postmodern%20Ethics%20A%20Buddhist%20Response2.pdf
"To act with deeds of loving kindness towards others is to adopt a certain kind of attitude, even one may say a certain kind of emotional stance. The characteristic emotional attitude is of course that of love (in the sense of a deep friendliness and empathetic attitude).
The Buddhist term here is ‘mettā ’, which has a meaning much broader and deeper than that conveyed by the modern understanding of the
word ‘love’. Such a love in its perfected form is characterized by being inclusive of all living beings, but it has as its basis the love that we feel for ourselves and those closest to us.
The basic emotional attitude of mettā can be elaborated further as the Four Brahma-vihāras or Sublime abodes.
Mettā is the first of the Brahma-vihāras and the basis of the other three abodes,
karuṇā or compassion,
muditā or sympathetic joy and
upekkhā or equanimity.
Thus when faced by the suffering of others ‘mettā ’ is expressed as karu.nā or compassion.
When faced with the happiness of living beings ‘mettā ’ is expressed as muditā or sympathetic joy.
Finally, when faced by the suffering and happiness of others in the light of the conditions that caused that suffering or happiness, mettā is expressed as upekkhā or equanimity or tranquillity.
By tranquillity is meant not a cold indifference, but a tranquillity that arises from the insight that any state of existence is impermanent and can therefore change into something better and higher."
Source: http://www.westernbuddhistreview.com/vol4/Postmodern%20Ethics%20A%20Buddhist%20Response2.pdf