Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
Originally posted by vivify Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
So are you looking? Don't want to spend on dating site?
Originally posted by sonhouse So are you looking? Don't want to spend on dating site?
I think it's more likely to happen if you both grew up with a sibling of the opposite sex, with whom you got along. I have a few friendships like that.
Originally posted by vivify Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
I generally don't get along with guys very well, find them rather boring and one dimensional. So to answer your question, yes, very much so. I have shared a house with girls before where we could hang out with no intentions of anything remotely physical happening.
Really depends on the people though, generally doesn't work if one has sexual feelings towards the other and are hanging out with them in the hope the other will change their mind.
Originally posted by vivify Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
Originally posted by vivify Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
Only my wife.
We live at the same address which makes the "your place or mine" discuss short and saves on taxis.
Originally posted by Trev33 Really depends on the people though, generally doesn't work if one has sexual feelings towards the other and are hanging out with them in the hope the other will change their mind.
Haven't you seen "When Harry met Sally"? That is the rulz.
Originally posted by vivify Do any of you have friends of the opposite sex that you hang out with on a regular basis? Do you (or have you ever) frequently spent time alone, either at your place or theirs, and just hung out, with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?
Or is that something that's for the most part, unrealistic?
".., with no intent (as far as you know) of anything remotely romantic?"
Ain't no such thing. Alone with a woman means only one thing. Unless one is gay, then it's probably about make-up or wardrobe, or maybe about relationships. 😉