@jedn8r said
ok, thanks,
ive gone back through my emails and found some of my last moves with my rating # and my username is a slight variation of my current one im sure I could work out my email as I've only had 2,from memory (im old now)my friend set me up on this site so we could play chess when he was overseas.
he has passed now
You said your username was a slight variation of your current one, so I looked up some similar usernames and came up with "jedan8r" with a Rating of 1690.
So if that's you, you might be able to re-activate your old account. Try it with your best guess on the email address, and see if you can get in and ask for a new password. Click where it has a link if you forgot your password.
Once you get that new password sent to your email, you can use that to get in and then change your password to one you want.
You may still need to try using feedback to get some help from admin.
edit: If you are "jedan8r" it looks like that username has not been used since about Feb., 2019.