I hate playing games w/ no chatting since it makes games very boring and dull. If you don't chat on the first move, THEN DON'T CHAT AT ALL. I will take timeout wins against non-chatters, chatters who take timeouts on me, and pathetic sore losers. With other chatters, I will give a break for one week. Good luck to you chatters!! Those who do not chat and refuse to resign in totally lost games are pathetic beginners and I have absolutely no respect for them since they just want to waste people's time!! If they want to play that way, I will waste their time AND ignore them. I love playing female chess players very much.