@fmf said
A Christian, citing "scripture", is insisting I am an "Anti-Christ".
What are the practical implications for the reality in which my family and I live?
What should I do now?
Apparently, I am also a "kafir" [which is a bad thing as well, I'm told] and the question is: what should I do about that, too?
But we can save that for another time and another thread.
KellyJay would rather pigeonhole you as an antichrist than being a Christian who has “fallen away”, to use his own phrase.
I’ll explain:
1) he cannot stand the thought that you once had what he thinks he has now, a relationship with the living God. It irks him more than anything else because it gives you the upper insight.
2) because KellyJay believes in eternal suffering at the hands of his version of Jesus, if he admits that you have “fallen away” then he has a direct responsibility to coach you back to Christ. But as with all the lost in his neighbourhood, he would rather ignore that responsibility and simply call you “antichrist”. It lifts any responsibility off of him.
3) (and this is the big one)
KellyJay believes that a saved Christian can “fall away” and lose their salvation. This is a MASSIVE statement which like eternal suffering goes right to the heart of the nature of his version of a failure Jesus.
I.E A god who only saves a few and can’t even hold on to all of those!! It is also a reminder to him that HE HIMSELF will not know that he was truly saved until the day he dies. Because if KellyJay “falls away” then, as he has accused you, so shall it be with him…. I.E. He wasn’t really saved in the first place!