Insinuations of harassment

Someone on Thread 184299 [page 3] on the Debates Forum [Duchess64] is insinuating - rather unbelievably - that she was sexually or personally harassed, persistently so, via PMs on this site [by a poster called sonhouse] where no one is able to verify this by looking at these alleged messages for themselves.

And another long-gone poster's PMs or posts [Flower04, last moved almost 4 years ago] are being cited as some sort of corroboration too, and these alleged messages cannot be verified either.

It is some sort of public poison-the-well smack-down gimmick [that has been trotted out over and over again] and I don't think RHP be should tolerate it.

If the perpetrator of this smearing did not make a complaint at the time [or the complaint was found to be unfounded] she should not be allowed to do this.

You crack down on people calling each other cheats. So why not stop people insinuating that others are creepy stalkers or harassers based on their own memory of secret "evidence"?

@fmf said
Someone on Thread 184299 [page 3] on the Debates Forum [Duchess64] is insinuating - rather unbelievably - that she was sexually or personally harassed, persistently so, via PMs on this site [by a poster called sonhouse] where no one is able to verify this by looking at these alleged messages for themselves.

And another long-gone poster's PMs or posts [Flower04, l ...[text shortened]... nuating that others are creepy stalkers or harassers based on their own memory of secret "evidence"?

A fair request indeed.

@FMF
Yeah, I PM'd her and said I want her body. Totally inappropriate I guess🙂 What actually happened was I PM'd her and asked her she could listen to my Soundcloud account where now I have 123 mostly original pieces of music and further made the mistake of asking if we could be friends.
To which she freaked out at the personal assault on her delicate being.
So don't bother PMing her, it freaks her out. If it is a her.

I think we should ask Russ to look into it.

@sonhouse said
@FMF
Yeah, I PM'd her and said I want her body. Totally inappropriate I guess🙂 What actually happened was I PM'd her and asked her she could listen to my Soundcloud account where now I have 123 mostly original pieces of music and further made the mistake of asking if we could be friends.
To which she freaked out at the personal assault on her delicate being.
So don't bother PMing her, it freaks her out. If it is a her.

Did you ask permission to P.M. her?

-VR

@very-rusty said
Did you ask permission to P.M. her?

-VR

stupid

@lemondrop
don't read the message
put messenger on ignore list
no big deal
move on

@lemondrop said
stupid

What is stupid about asking permission to P.M. somone especially if they happen to be female?

-VR

@lemondrop said
@lemondrop
don't read the message
put messenger on ignore list
no big deal
move on

You've always answered mine and I've always answered your P.M.'s.

I don't think I'd take a chance on P.M.'ing some Females on this site as they may call it harrassment.

-VR
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@very-rusty said
You've always answered mine and I've always answered your P.M.'s.

I don't think I'd take a chance on P.M.'ing some Females on this site as they may call it harrassment.

-VR
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Here sir, take this ball.

Go play.

How does one ask permission to PM without PM’ing...in which case you’ve already done it...😁

@hakima said
How does one ask permission to PM without PM’ing...in which case you’ve already done it...😁

You didn't happen to be one of the people who I thought needed to be asked permission nor would say harrassment because I did so.

One can always ask in the Public forums that anyone can participate in.

-VR

@ghost-of-a-duke said
Here sir, take this ball.

Go play.

Here is your ball back goad,

Take it sir, and shove it where the sun don't shine!

-VR

@handyandy said
I think we should ask Russ to look into it.

You are joking of course!

-VR

@very-rusty said
You are joking of course!

-VR

If he were joking sir he would have complimented you on your intelligence.